Prep the dates: If your dates are firm, soak them in warm water for 5 minutes, then drain.
This helps them blend smoothly.
Toast the coconut (optional but recommended): Add shredded coconut to a dry skillet over medium heat. Stir for 2–3 minutes until golden and fragrant. Let cool.
Load the blender: Add coconut milk, frozen banana, dates, cocoa powder, vanilla, salt, and ice.
Start with 1/2 cup ice and add more if needed.
Blend until very smooth: Start low, then increase to high for 30–45 seconds. Scrape down sides if needed.
Adjust: Taste and add more cocoa for chocolate intensity, a dash of maple for sweetness, or a splash of milk to thin.
Finish: Pulse in toasted coconut for texture or sprinkle it on top. Drizzle chocolate down the inside of your glass if you’re feeling fancy.
Serve immediately: Pour into a chilled glass and top with coconut flakes and a pinch of salt.
Add a straw and enjoy.